Ben Inspirationals

Well as expected, we were not disappointed at the second edition of A DATE WITH PASTOR B; a program held on the 14th of every February, organized by Pastor Mrs Blessing George Igbinidu fondly called Pastor B, Co-Senior Pastor at Gods Word Foundation and Prayer Ministry Benin City, the church that also powers the program. It was full of glamour, beautiful and excited faces, a serene environment with so much love in the atmosphere, the program saw an out pour of youths and teens who came to participate and of course take delivery of their promised answers on issues that might have been bordering them for a while. Distinguished guests who were on the discussion forum were all excited and fired up to deliver, and deliver they did! while questions and answers kept pouring in, everyone was attentive and at the same time enjoying the snacks and soft drinks that were served on their round tables, it was indeed an awesome experience, the valentine couldn't have been better...

Ever wonder why most ladies still remain in  abusive relationships? You see a young lady being physically abused by her partner, most times the reason being why she gave a very long hug to some guy or she wouldn't say who called her and why... You would think, well, this is certainly it,  they are done, but to your surprise the very next day,  you see them holding hands in a shopping mall or a cafeteria some where and you can't help but wonder what kind of voodoo the guy must have used on the girl! Ladies like that are crazy and don't have self worth or esteem,  they should know better than to remain in such relationship might be your response right now, but it's often said that it is he or in this case,  she that wears a shoe that knows where it hurts! For some time now, I have listened, asked questions about this and most times I am always amazed! Some say they chose to remain because the guy aside occasionally laying hands on them, know...

How often in our relationships do we wake up and suddenly realize that we are not just compatible with our partners. We try all our best to make sure it works out but all to no avail!   Don't know what to do, i like him but it ain't just working, huh!  what happens at this stage is that many just gets frustrated and out of not wanting to hurt their partner they just remain, venting out their frustration on anyone and everyone! The good news is that you can get out of it if you want to, dating anyone with pity does not do you any good, so why waste your time and energy on something you know will not lead anywhere. Another reality is, while you are with him/her you miss out on potential opportunities to actually be with the right person. I recently posted a comment on Facebook, i want you to take note of the sentence underlined.    "FAULTS ARE THICK WHERE LOVE IS THIN! So maybe the reason you are having some much trouble with him/her is because the love is loos...