Ben Inspirationals

Mark 12:31 KJV And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these. One commonly used line during break-up is; Am sorry, its not you, its me! The sad truth is, most people who uses this line are 98% right! Christ teaches us to love our neighbours "AS" we love ourselves. I know very little about English Language, I mean, I don't teach it but I think the word "As" is an adverb used in comparisons to refer to the extent or degree of something. This goes to say you have got to possess Love to be able to give it! You see, you can't give what you do not have. When it comes to finding the right partner, you have to start by being the right person, most people who ignorantly loses out on being together with a good person is not because the person doesn't love them, its actually because they don't love themselves. When you don't love yourself, a sense of

How often in our relationships do we wake up and suddenly realize that we are not just compatible with our partners. We try all our best to make sure it works out but all to no avail!   Don't know what to do, i like him but it ain't just working, huh!  what happens at this stage is that many just gets frustrated and out of not wanting to hurt their partner they just remain, venting out their frustration on anyone and everyone! The good news is that you can get out of it if you want to, dating anyone with pity does not do you any good, so why waste your time and energy on something you know will not lead anywhere. Another reality is, while you are with him/her you miss out on potential opportunities to actually be with the right person. I recently posted a comment on Facebook, i want you to take note of the sentence underlined.    "FAULTS ARE THICK WHERE LOVE IS THIN! So maybe the reason you are having some much trouble with him/her is because the love is loosing we

God's Love is constant! It doesn't change. He is the same yesterday, today and forever! Please understand that Gods love for us is unconditional! I have seen and heard many people complain about how others are being blessed and it seems they are left out. "We belong to the same service unit, we go to bible studies together, we even pray the same prayer points together, so how come he is getting more blessed than me? maybe God loves  him more than me" and you wonder why many people suddenly backslides, talking like this will only weaken your faith! Please understand that no man suddenly gets blessed because God started loving him more, truth is, he started getting blessed because he started loving God! If you are still waiting on God to start loving you before your life begins to change then am afraid, you will be waiting for a long time. You see, God couldn't love you more than He already do!   Romans 8:37-39  - No, in all these things we are more

Be it a child on the streets, or one in some fancy house, even one in some neglected rural area, please understand they all deserve better! It is no doubt that the better future we all pray and hope for is really actually depending on the children of today, we might be working hard on this future, giving it our all to make it a reality, but the fact is many of us  might not actually be here when it becomes a reality. Some great principles that are being applied today in most areas of life for which we are actually getting results where not cooked up yesterday, they go far back even before our forefathers were born! So this post goes out to everyone out there taking part in shaping our future by nurturing these children, guiding them to make right decisions, maybe you belong to a charity home for children, or donates to a home for the less privileged, maybe each time you see a child on the street your heart goes out to them and you are forced to help in one way or the other,

Today makes it one week since my last post, I had a two day empowerment program tagged; Grace to Fulfill Destiny! It was a lovely program with the Holy Ghost at work. It is first important to have a basic understanding of GRACE. Grace is the free and unmerited favor of God, as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessings. By your works you don't deserve the blessing but because you are in Christ you become entitled to it.  Pleas understand, that fulfilling destiny is not by your pedigree, its not by your statue, it is not by age, not even by your academic qualification, it is solely by Gods grace. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy. Rom. 9:16 I am sure there many who will disagree, because they feel what ever they have achieved as nothing to do with any god. They will say it was self determination and the will to achieve greatness.  Let me shock you, there are many educated derelicts out t