FIX IT, IF YOU CAN'T, MOVE ON!
How often in our relationships do we wake up and suddenly realize that we are not just compatible with our partners. We try all our best to make sure it works out but all to no avail!
Don't know what to do, i like him but it ain't just working, huh! what happens at this stage is that many just gets frustrated and out of not wanting to hurt their partner they just remain, venting out their frustration on anyone and everyone!
The good news is that you can get out of it if you want to, dating anyone with pity does not do you any good, so why waste your time and energy on something you know will not lead anywhere. Another reality is, while you are with him/her you miss out on potential opportunities to actually be with the right person.
I recently posted a comment on Facebook, i want you to take note of the sentence underlined.
"FAULTS ARE THICK WHERE LOVE IS THIN! So maybe the reason you are having some much trouble with him/her is because the love is loosing weight! Fix it, if you can't, move on!"
You don't do yourself and your partner any good by holding on to a relationship that has lost weight!
Another good news is, you can totally avoid this whole scenery in the future, here i have just few questions amongst many that i believe if every couple will sincerely answer will save them so much trouble, please understand that i am not asking you to put your partner on the interrogation stand, this questions can be brought up while having a nice time with your partner, maybe over a dinner or when you are doing what you both enjoy to do, remember, don't interrogate, just discuss while observing his or her response.
These few questions have been put out there and the response has been amazing, you will be amazed how simple things like this can make a huge difference. It is important to note that these are to be asked when the relationship is just taken its peak, asking them when you are kneel deep into it might not help much rather it might even cause some hard feelings.
1. Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?
2. In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing?
3. How do you vent out your frustrations in a relationship?
4. Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work?
5. Do you like babies/how many kids would you like to have someday?
6. If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and
cheer you up?
These might seem common and like every day questions, but the real question is, how many sincerely answer these questions? I hope you get the best out of your relationship as you begin to put the little you might have gotten here to practice!
Don't know what to do, i like him but it ain't just working, huh! what happens at this stage is that many just gets frustrated and out of not wanting to hurt their partner they just remain, venting out their frustration on anyone and everyone!The good news is that you can get out of it if you want to, dating anyone with pity does not do you any good, so why waste your time and energy on something you know will not lead anywhere. Another reality is, while you are with him/her you miss out on potential opportunities to actually be with the right person.
I recently posted a comment on Facebook, i want you to take note of the sentence underlined.
"FAULTS ARE THICK WHERE LOVE IS THIN! So maybe the reason you are having some much trouble with him/her is because the love is loosing weight! Fix it, if you can't, move on!"
You don't do yourself and your partner any good by holding on to a relationship that has lost weight!
Another good news is, you can totally avoid this whole scenery in the future, here i have just few questions amongst many that i believe if every couple will sincerely answer will save them so much trouble, please understand that i am not asking you to put your partner on the interrogation stand, this questions can be brought up while having a nice time with your partner, maybe over a dinner or when you are doing what you both enjoy to do, remember, don't interrogate, just discuss while observing his or her response.
These few questions have been put out there and the response has been amazing, you will be amazed how simple things like this can make a huge difference. It is important to note that these are to be asked when the relationship is just taken its peak, asking them when you are kneel deep into it might not help much rather it might even cause some hard feelings.
1. Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?
2. In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing?
3. How do you vent out your frustrations in a relationship?
4. Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work?
5. Do you like babies/how many kids would you like to have someday?
6. If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and
cheer you up?
These might seem common and like every day questions, but the real question is, how many sincerely answer these questions? I hope you get the best out of your relationship as you begin to put the little you might have gotten here to practice!
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Be sure to also leave a comment and partner with us by sharing this, also you can send me a mail, if you require any help any making some issues clearer, be blessed!
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