RELATIONSHIP: TALK TO EACH OTHER!

A GOOD LISTENER IS NOT ONLY POPULAR EVERYWHERE, BUT AFTER A WHILE HE KNOWS SOMETHING. 
     Communication is a vital  key in the success of every team work! When we don't properly communicate with each other, misunderstanding is bound to happen.
 
  Its funny, cause the meaning of the word "Misunderstanding" actually is; a failure to understand something correctly. This is what we realize when we are calm after a serious argument, which of course most times is really of no use anymore because the harm has been done, we have said some words we wish we could take back, broken some valuables and now, we are just disappointed in ourselves. "Ah! I should have let him/her finish!"
    But then again, I believe we are bound to misunderstand what ever is not properly explained to us even when we give the other person a chance to explain, so what do we do at that time?
 
     This is the point we have got to be really careful, because this time emotions are heightened and most times many of us just jump into conclusions thereby causing the other person to be unable to really explain further. Have you ever head the word; What do you want me to say? Why should i say anything anymore? I have got nothing to say since you have already concluded!   

    Yeah, those are the words that follows after we shut down our spouse. There is a need for us to realize that relationship is a team work, talking to each other and sincerely listening and not just to  finding fault is what makes the work and walk easier! 
    
    Communication is a way of reflecting what is in our inside, that is why is the bible says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, your speaking offloads the burdens in your heart. When you hear someone suddenly exploded and became rude to everyone, when you find out you will get to know that he/she must of have been keeping a lot of things to themselves, so not really communicating with each other is a killer of joy in #Relationships! 

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