Having A 2016 Stress Free Relationship! (How? Find out not now!)


More than ever before, please understand it's a new year, and if anything is going to be new in your life then you must deliberately make some changes!

We all know relationships many at times can be complicated , tiring, strength consuming and can drain you emotionally!
But these haven't really stopped many to keep trying in the hope of finding that perfect person!

So why not try to do it right this year, am sure you already read some of my 2016 RESOLUTION I suggested to you, why not make having a 2016 Stress Free Relationship part of that resolution!
So, once again, here are some vital things to check to guide you in having a stress free relationship, some of these we already put up on our Facebook Page; ASKYOURPARTNER.

List to check;
1. Make sure you know where you stand with your partner this year! I have witnessed two long time relationship end up in disappointment, so believe me when I tell you, it's safe to know what it is you guys are doing, no assumption.

 You guys are either just having fun or courting for marriage, either way knowing helps you avoid disappointment or helps you decide to move on should your partner not want what you want!

2. Make some changes to freshen up your relationship.
For some who are married or have being dating for long and feel the relationship has lost its taste, then it might just be the year you need to try freshen up the air. Do some fun stuff, try reconnecting through the things that first attracted you guys together. Surprise each other!

3. Wipe the slate clean (forgiveness) and try to find yourselves again.
So many people transfer past disappointments on potential partners! If you allow your past experience to control your present and future then you aren't going to get anywhere!
Forgive and let go, not for your offender but for you!

4. Again, if you can't fix it, move on. Stop wasting your time and his/her time!
If nothing else, it robs you and your partner the chance of meeting potential partner! We have an article on this, read it Here. 

5. Communicate better! It's the back bone of every awesome relationship!
Stop avoiding the essentials, talk about them, "oh, he doesn't talk much" well find a common ground! We also recently wrote on this, Click Here to know more. 

6. Finally, keep the friendship in the relationship or marriage!
This is very important, it's always about how good of friends you are! You can literally walk through anything if you guys are very good friends. Friends tell each other what spouses don't,  so keep the friendship!

I hope i made some sense, so please partner with us by sharing or leaving a comment, it might be a suggestion or contribution, be blessed all the same!
Wishing you a very good experience this year! #ASKYOURPARTNER #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #RELATIONSHIPTIPS #BINSPIRED

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